This is a work in progress. As I understand what boundaries truly mean, this will be filled with more than just "pet peeves" and discomforts.
| NON PHYSICAL BOUNDARIES/PET PEEVES |
| Calling me Unproblematic. |
| Sexualization. |
| Flirting if we're not close. |
| "Fatherless" & "Motherless" jokes |
| Labeling my hyperfixations as obsessions. |
| In general making fun of or questioning my hyperfixations negatively. |
| Bringing up past stuff. |
| Complaining about my xenogenders or "not getting it" and calling it weird. |
| Just in general being a bitch to me and me specifically with no tone indicators or knowledge that it is a joke. |
| PHYSICAL BOUNDARIES |
| Caressing or touching the right side of my face. |
| Touching my neck. |
| Locking arms with me. |
| In general touching without consent. |
| About unproblematic |
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| I've done some shitty things in the past, and making the expectation that I'm unproblematic makes it worse whenever the problematic things I've done gets uncovered. I've tried to apolgize and redeem myself but some things cannot be forgiven in my opinion. |
| Even though they might be little things to others. They're big to me. I've never been forgiven for those things so I still think they're problematic. |
| Corpses |
| Funerals |
| Emmett Till |
| Ahmaud Arbery |
| Elijah McClain |
| Decomposition in the context of death |
| The word "manipulator" |
| Fresh cuts |
| Scars |
| Caskets |
| Certain mentions of $u!c!d3 (Mass suicides, suicides of people younger than 40) |
| Weirdcore things. Specifically the things with all the eyes and teeth. |
| Certain weight mentions (Anything lower than 83lbs) |
I get very hyperactive and just spill out all my info.
I talk about my hyperfixations daily.
Please tell me if you need tone indicators.
Yes, I did put some black people on there. No I am not racist. I am black and these topics make me very anxious and distressed.
PLEASE TELL ME IF I MAKE YOU UNCOMFORTABLE AND I WILL FIX IT STRAIGHT AWAY!
